Clitoral Stimulation

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Clitoral Stimulation

Most women find that clitoral stimulation is the best way to achieve orgasm, and in turn is the technique most used during masturbation. Clitoral stimulation is wonderful, but its been shown that women can have orgasms from many different forms of stimulation. Constant clitoral stimulation is required by some women to become sexually aroused. This is because significant clitoral stimulation is not obtained with intercourse alone. So sexual stimulation of the clitoris is very definitly well established as a trigger for orgasm for most women.

It should be mentioned, a recent research found that, at least in some women, both vaginal and clitoral stimulation is needed to provide a so-called complete orgasm. Some men actually believe that women only need vaginal stimulation to reach an orgasm, even though, for some women, clitoral stimulation is the actual key to orgasmic pleasure. But on the other hand, for some women intercourse is enough to reach climax, although I think there's a clear distinction between vaginal and clitoral orgasms, which is a whole other topic to write about sometime.

Women know how to have orgasms but do not feel free to express this during sex with men. Some women feel that touching their bodies to find their erotic spots is taboo, because society suppresses the idea of clitoral stimulation. So its well advised for women to be more relaxed and confident about their bodies, and to be upfront about what they really prefer from their partners, also to feel free to masturbate and to find a sexual partner who will also provide them with clitoral stimulation, so they can then feel more relaxed and comfortable with their lover, and maybe begin to have real orgasms due to the lack of stress.

The fact is, many women who have trouble having orgasms eventually realize that the more active a role they play in the…action, the easier it is for them to finish. And in actuality, a women's increased ease with their bodies and confidence in lovemaking continues to grow after their thirties. Also women often report that orgasms are actually more intense after the age of 40.

Most women will need clitoral stimulation prior to intercourse in order to achieve an orgasm with intercourse. This is because significant clitoral stimulation is not obtained with intercourse alone. This also offers an explanation for the puzzling fact that the key point of sexual stimulation for females is not in the vagina which receives the sexual organ of the male, but on the connected tissue of the clitoris.

So it's been stated and well documented that the vast majority of women do not experience orgasm as a result of intercourse alone, or do so inconsistently, and that clitoral stimulation is not a consistent feature of intercourse. This should be no problem though, as this can be accomplished through oral stimulation provided by their partner.

And when performing oral sex on your woman, alternate the stimulation between her genitals and other parts of her body to really turn her on. Don't just lick up and down, since concentrating on only one spot can lead to overstimulation. Experiment with speed and pressure, but try to keep a rhythm or steady pattern of movement since short spurts of erratic stimulation are likely to throw her focus off.

Done right, clitoral stimulation is the best way to bring a woman to the edge of orgasm and then take her over the edge. Effective clitoral stimulation is key in achieving satisfying sexual pleasure for your woman. Also keep in mind, for about 85% of women, clitoral stimulation is the best (and sometimes only) way for a woman to reach orgasm.
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Article Written By J. Foley